I am Luthern and Fiance is Catholic. We are getting married in his parish. I have been learning the similarities and differences is the marriage traditions with these 2 faiths. We have recently taken our FOCUS survey and have to discuss the results with our mentor couple tonight. Is this a typical catholic tradion? I have found it quite meaningful. The erichment day however I didn't get aything out of and thought it was a waist of time. We will not be having the traditional mass as only half the guest would participate. I was previously married, but do to some catholic law, the bishops found that I was not married in the sacrament and therefore an anulment was not nessesary. This is another differece between the 2 faiths. I was a little worried at first if the priest would even marry us. Any other differences I may find as i'm nearing the day? And what about children...what are yur thoughts on the faith they should be raised in? My thought is to raise them luthern. I participate more in my faith and send my 2 cildren to luthern sunday school, so I wouldn't want their new sibling to have to go to a different church. Thanks ladies for your input.