Ok ladies bear with me. This is a unique situation. I have a friend that I have know for almost 10 years. Until recently she was a lesbian. I say until recently because she is now going throught the transition from female to male. I am going to be her maid of honor in her wedding once her transition is complete and she keeps mentioning to that she expects to be in my wedding party. We already have 1 too many guys and she won't wear a dress. On top of all of that my parents have never really liked her. We lost touch for a while and though we do still talk we are not as close as we once were. I have no idea what to do are how to tell her she's probably not going to be in my wedding. Please help.