I am getting married on 10/10/10. It is a second marriage for both of us. The ceremony/reception are being held at the same site. It is at 1 oclock on a sunday afternoon and the "look" I am going for is casual elegance. So, with all that said, I am wearing a beautiful chocolate brown dress. All my colors are jewel toned fall colors. I keep stressing that maybe I should wear a white dress. What do other knotties think?