I co-hosted a bridal shower for a friend two months ago and never recieved a thank-you note from the bride. The MOH and I planned a wine themed shower that wasn't cheap and tried really hard to make it nice for the bride. The MOH and I also went in together for an expensive gift. We did all this because she is our friend and I am really happy for her - but neither of us recieved a thank-you note. After asking around it turns out no one recieved thank-yous. I even took the time to write down every gift she got and who it was from.
I did recieve a thank-you note last week for her wedding gift, but there was no mention of the shower at all. Am I wrong in being upset about this? I'm also worried that people who sent gifts to the shower are afraid she never recieved them.
Is this just a case of get over it? Or should I say something to the bride?