My MOH loves to plan weddings. This is a great attribute to have in a MOH, but I am starting to feel a little overwhelmed by her.
My MOH has started to contact venues and schedule tours of places before informing me about the place (even before I look at the venue's website). She sometimes ignores our wishes and contacts venues we have no interest in. For instance, we wanted an outdoor ceremony since the wedding will be in the summer, but she contacts venues that do not have outdoor ceremony sites.
And it's not just venues. She continues to overly voice her opinion regarding dresses (both my wedding dress and the bridesmaid dresses), centerpieces, and color schemes. It may sound silly, but I feel like it is no longer our wedding.
I am starting to feel as though she is overstepping when it comes to the wedding planning, but I need an outside, unbiased opinion. What do you think? And if she is overstepping, how can I gently inform her of this?