I'm wondering how to incorporate my stepmom into our wedding. My parents were divorced when I was four because my dad cheated with my stepmom, but they've lasted 18 years. Obviously, my mom still loathes them both, especially her. I actually love her to death, and she's been really helpful with the wedding planning, which my real mom hasn't been. I was thinking of having my brother, an usher, walk them both down together and sit between them in front, so Audra won't feel wierd not knowing anyone at the wedding and have to sit alone. My mom is probably going to FLIP OUT if I tell her this. I know it's supposed to be what I want, but I really don't want to start any wedding drama, or have my mom feel less important, but Audra is really a big part of my life now. Options, please!