Hello ladies! I'm looking for some advice as far as choosing a wedding date. My fiance is in the Army and just got transferred to Fort Bragg for the next 2 years. We were planning on a September or October 2014 wedding. Well today he just found out that he'll be super busy with work the middle of September through the middle of October - exactly when I wanted the wedding - and he won't be able to take any time off. Between his schedule and the dates available at the venue we want, the only date around that time would be September 13th. Now, my best friend got married September 10, 2011, I was in her wedding and she'll be in mine. I was trying to stay away from the 10th in consideration of her. She hasn't said me getting married so close to her anniversary would bother her, but I'm not sure she would tell me if it really did. I just don't want her to feel like I'm stealing her date. I need some help! Should I just forget about a September wedding to spare hurting her feelings? Thank you for any advice!!!