so now his cousin who is married to his best friend since childhood isnt coming to the wedding. claiming broke. but i know this isnt the real reason. the real reason is because she is best friends with his mother and sister and all they do is sit around dogging FI and how he chooses to raise his child. He has stopped dealing with them altogether. So now his cousin isnt going to come. The F'd up part is we planned the date specifically for this cousin to be sure she could come. Not only did she not RSVP, she didnt even call my FI, she put her husband up to breaking the news. and her husband didnt break the news til he was asked. I feel so bad for my FI, everyone he thought cared for his is doggin him. But he isnt realizing that his true friends always have his back. ex- a guy he works with and who is a casual friend, saw us in the mall the other day buying matching sets of cologne, he paid for them as our wedding gift. he didnt have to do that but he did because he is a good friend to FI. I dont think he realizes that the people who are closest to him arent always your best "friends"