Sigh....I just don't know what to do anymore. My sister is my MOH and my best friend is a bridesmaid. My sister is younger than me and has some "issues" and is part of the problem that I'm having. She has not helped me with my wedding AT ALL. She has not called me or asked if I needed any help with anything. She was supposed to do my makeup and never took the time to sit and try things, so will be doing that myself! My BM has been doing ALL of the MOH duties and it just isn't fair. She has been planning a J & J for us and has only had minimal help from my sister. The only way to communicate with her is via text messaging (which is rediculous!!). I texted her a few weeks back and gave her an ultimatum of getting herself together or stepping down in her position. She texted back pleading to not have her step down that she would be devastated. She started calling my BM to go over the J&J details, BUT HAS YET TO EVEN CALL ME!! Now I really want her to step down and give my BM the honor of being my MOH...since she deserves it! However, she won't call me back and my last text...she did not respond to. I've been wanting to tell her face to face that she needs to step down. Considering texting her since that's the only way she'll get the message.
Any thoughts on this? Think I need some advise from outside sources.
Thanks...and sorry this was long!