We never officially booked this woman. I have known her most of my life, her daughter and I grew up together (daughter is a BM...and making my life impossible), and she and my mother are very close friends. She is incredibly overbearing and has tried to make this her wedding from Day 1. I finally was able to break free of that by changing the venue. Anywho, to the cake.
We showed her the cake we wanted. 2 months ago.
That's all that's been done. She has never given me any flavor options, only asks me what I'm interested in. She has started a new restaurant 1.5 hours from the wedding site and won't be able to be at the wedding. The roads between the two places are very curvy and she drives like a maniac. She won't quote me prices, she won't offer me any sort of information.
However- I messaged a girl my brother graduated high school with and asked her a few things and I have all the information I need to know I WANT HER. She even includes a free 1 year anniversary top layer so you're not eating old cake
I've never been known for being tactful, or having a soft tongue. I almost had her in tears when I told her we were changing venues. For my mother's sake, I don't need to make a blow-up of this. Help???