I need a reality check. I think. My fiance proposed by taking me to a resturant andn surprising me with a ring at dinner, overall cute and memorable. The issue I keep having with how we got engaged is that right after the engagement (before dinner even ended) he insited that we call both families. My parents were happy and said see you & the ring this weekend. I said sure we'll see. His parents said see you after dinner, I said what and asked what do you mean we are not going to see you right after dinner. My fiance then took the phone from me, told his parents that we were still going to see them right after dinner just as he planned and for them to not listen to me. He then rushed me thru dinner and took me immediatly after dinner to his family house, where in addition to his parents his sister and her family were there too. As soon as we got there his nieces and nephews came up and said play with us - so he left the room. When I tried to follow him, both his sister and mother cornered me, and immediatly peppered me with questions about when we are planning wedding for and where, etc. After 1 hour they finally stopped enough for me to find him. I went to find him and said we needed to go, he said we didn't brought me back into the room with his family, then turned around and left agin. At that time his dad started asking me about grandchildren. I am so angry at my fiance, I feel like he abandoned me there with his family and I am not able to enjoy any of the engagement because of how it started. What am I to do?