so i went to a wedding where they didn't do a dollar dance or have clanking glasses for the couple to kiss (plastic glasses and utensils), but they had a big gong and you could give a dollar or 5 or whatever hit the gong and the couple would kiss. i thought this was a cute idea cuz we're not doing a dollar dance (and its not out of control hitting the glasses all night)...do you have any thoughts on what we could do thats not a gong, but the same idea?
ps we're having glasses and metal utensils, but would just make an announcement at the beginning that we'd only kiss when our thing is hit or whatever. AND STICK TO IT!!!
(so i posted this on the reception board and the girl is like "you can't charge your guests to do anything blah blah blah" and it wouldnt be "charging" because thats what a freakin dollar dance is too and ppl do that all the time! and i am not like "everyone HAS TO ring the gong (or whatever we have) so get in line and pull out the big bills!!!" UGHH! i am now only posting on here where everyone is nice!)