Is it required to have a dinner? It was my understanding that the groom's familyl is responsible for this however, it is becoming more apparent to me that they are not going too. Should we organize some sort of dinner for our wedding party and out of town guests? What do you all suggest? Or b/c we may possibly be renting homes that are near the location of the wedding for the weekend should we just have a feast delivered to one of the locations...??? Any help would be greatly appreciated!