Sorry this is long...
I feel like this battle is never going to end! My parents are very against having kids at the reception. My fiance and I finally were able to get children at least in middle school to be able to come. However, his parents are not happy with this at all. His cousins have kids and want the kids at the wedding and the reception.
His parents a couple of weeks ago sat down with us to talk about it and I told them that my parents won't budge. I've tried everything but I'm not going to rock the boat anymore than I have. They are my parents and I want them to enjoy themselves at the wedding. After that they said the understood and that it would be hard on his side of the family. He even told them that he will talk to everyone that he needs to and try and keep the peace. His parents said that they would help with that.
This morning he calls me and told me that his parents talked to him again sternly this time and said that his grandparents, cousins, and aunts will hold grudges and not like us anymore. I'm pissed and upset at his parents who just said that they understood and supported us. I have no idea what to do now. They are my PARENTS I don't want them to have a crappy time at the wedding of their youngest. I'm very upset and I need advice...