So, I have like 827637652 cousins (my grandma is one of 7 siblings and all of us are very close with our great aunts and uncles - and each other - even though we are all technically second and third cousins).
I am inviting nearly all of our in-town counsins, aunts, uncles, and relatives to the wedding (other than the cousin who steals things and his sister, actually). One of my great aunts lives in Louisville, and so do lots and lots of my cousins down there. We don't see them very often, and aren't nearly as close with all of them, so we had planned on just inviting my great aunt who I am very close with + a guest to accompany her.
I just found out that my cousins who are hosting my shower have invited at least 3 of the Louisville female cousins to my shower who were not previously invited to the wedding. Reading the other post about showers made me realize I need to do something about this...yikes.
I guess I just need to suck it up and invite these ladies to the wedding....but if I invite them....then there are lots of other cousins who would be left out as well.
my family is so huge, that this is getting REALLY hard! My side of the guest list is so much bigger than my fiance's, it isn't even funny...
Thank you for letting me vent. I know that proper etiquette says that since they were invited to the shower, they should be invited to the wedding. It's just a tricky situation.