My fiance and I are both wanting a handfasting for our wedding. We are both pagan, and think it would be a great way to have a open-faith wedding. His side is very open to the idea, but my family insist that there must be a Catholic ceremony and that the term 'God' be used to bind us. We were willing to state the term Creator in our ceremony, but my parents insist that our union is blessed and holy in the eyes of their church. They also fear that we are demon worshipers and that what we are practicing is evil. Both my fiance and I have other who are very much in tune with their religious beliefs. How can I make a handfasting ceremony non-offensive to those who are devote to their own religions?