there is 37 days until the wedding and guess what --> the flowers aren't finalized because my FMIL is concerned about the cost... now, she's paying for them because she was APPALLED that i even considered hand making all of our flowers for the wedding out of paper & said she would pay for them.... we still don't have a limo booked because, you guessed it FMIL hasn't done it yet... cause 7 months ago when I went to book it, the limo company wanted $1700 and thats not in our budget, so she offered to pay for it, and said she would take care of it.. *** these are the only two things she is paying for because we took care of everything else since** okay she is also paying for the Reh dinner because she HAD to have one. my FI and i hadn't planned on having one because we were going to pay for the wedding ourselves, and well a Reh dinner wasn't in our budget.
i guess i wouldn't be so upset about FMIL complain about the cost of the flowers except that they are rich. she was an executive for IMB for almost 5 years, and worked for them for almost 30 years. they live in a 2 million dollar house, that is only 10 years old, & she is having all the carpets replaced in the house for the wedding because family will be staying there, and changing the back splash in the kitchen, again because family members are staying there instead of at a hotel...which costs $10,000 to do!! do not complain to me that you have no money when you are spending $10,000 on replacing carpet that doesn't freaking need to be replaced!!! when the flowers cost $1300!!! AND THE WEDDING ISN'T AT YOUR FREAKING HOUSE!!!!