My fiance's mom has made it clear since our engagement that she and his step-dad are willing to contribute financially to the wedding. She finally gave him a budget: $30,000!
That is beyond generous and way more than either of us were expending. (and I understand the "he who pays, says" so those comments are not really needed).
Here's my problem: my parents have basically said that they will not be contributing (and if they do it'll be very little). They did not pay for my sister's wedding so it would only be fair that they not pay for mine.
I feel guilty that his parents are putting so much in and what comes from my family will basically come from me (working part-time as a waitress...)
Should I feel guilty? (We did not ask for the money)