when i got engaged in sept. a week or two after i went to the church and talk with the wedding lady she was very rude. i went with my FI cousins gf cause all i was told that i just needing to pick up papers. well we went and talked to her and i told her i wanted to get married on june 15th 2013 she told me i cant pick the day yet cause they dont have the book and they will get that in feb. then she told me that i would just be penciel in with a question mark not to make any plans with the reception. i told her my FI was Baptist and she went on and on about him converting and i just felt like it wasnt her place to say all that kinds of stuff.
so this past week my dad went and returned the papers for me and wanted to talk to the lady and she told him we cant book the church till 8 months till the wedding. my dad said well we need to know so we can get the hall. the lady said who is we dad your not getting married. my dad said we as a family like to do things together. my dad was so mad. then my dad said i have been going to this church for 23 years and your making it very hard for my daughter to get married in her church. so the lady said whats your name i dont know you. my dad said he just had to walk out cause she was so rude
i really wanna get married in the church i grew up in but if i have to deal with this lady i dont know what to do!