So, I am having my wedding on a Friday night and trying to keep it small. Less than 60people. I am NOT inviting a good amount of my extended family, mostly cousins and their spouses, but ALL of my aunts (there are 5 of them) will be invited. I am inviting one cousin and another is in my wedding party so this leaves the others out. I feel like I should send out STD because it's a on a Friday night and a good hour away for most guests, BUT, am feeling anxious about it. I don't want it to be awkward that some people in my family got STD and others didn't and then be at afamily gathering and have it be brought up.. I know I will have to deal with that when the actual invites go out, but that will be a shorter time and not 8months of awkwardness. So now you know the back story and my question is, do you think I should still send out STD or are they really not necessary(and keep my anxiety down a bit!) TIA!!