I didn't want to hijack the Bridal Shower Attendees thread. I know that mothers and sisters should be invited to showers, but does this also apply to out-of-town showers?
My mom and aunt are each throwing me showers back home (Massachusetts), one for each side of the family (divorced parents, family drama, etc.) Should my FMIL and FSILs (bridesmaids), who live in Maryland and are invited to a shower being hosted for me in Maryland, be invited to both showers in Massachusetts?