Not Engaged Yet

Hello Hello

So...Hi.

I thought i would introduce myself as i have been lurking for a week or two and was thinking about posting.

My BF and I have been having some serious talks about marriage and eloping due to things in our life. I started poking around TK for some info and ended up here.

We are both 25, been together almost a year and are extremely nerdy. I work in HR, he is a mechanic and goes to school. I love potatoes, Harry Potter, Doctor Who and Beer (i like wine too, and get to sample and enjoy a bit of both due to work).

Anything else you wanna know just ask! (But as i'm off work in 10 min i may not answer till i get home)
Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
«1

Re: Hello Hello

  • lunarsongbirdlunarsongbird member
    First Anniversary Combo Breaker First Comment
    edited January 2012
    So... What were you testing on the December 2014 board?
    LilySlim Weight loss tickers
  • Hi and welcome! You don't have to get into details if you don't want to, but why the possible elopement? Is it because you want to have a small wedding (just the two of you, perhaps) or is it to escape some family drama? Just wondering.
  • Lunar, I think you scurred her... her profile is private now :(
    Canada Cat Pictures, Images and Photos
  • helloblueeyeshelloblueeyes member
    First Comment
    edited January 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:29b59d9a-5d14-451b-a87d-82f98742123b">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]So... What were you testing on the December 2014 board?
    Posted by lunarsongbird[/QUOTE]

    <div>
    </div><div>I had never posted before, and wasn't quite sure how it worked.  The test was so that hopefully i wouldn't make a total fool of myself the first time i did it.</div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:b6671676-14dd-4689-b214-f4ab5577f8a4">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]Lunar, I think you scurred her... her profile is private now :(
    Posted by SopChick[/QUOTE]

    <div>Since i'm not actually engaged or really doing any wedding planning, i didn't think it would be useful to have it open, there is nothing to share in it. Plus, internet safety and all that good stuff.</div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:eb9e8029-08ed-485a-8d85-4e50862378c5">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hi and welcome! You don't have to get into details if you don't want to, but why the possible elopement? Is it because you want to have a small wedding (just the two of you, perhaps) or is it to escape some family drama? Just wondering.
    Posted by DanieKA[/QUOTE]

    <div>
    </div><div>Even if we were to have a wedding it would be small, neither of us are real big on weddings or being the center of attention. Plus BF has some serious family drama, that we try to stay out of. But the reason we have been talking about it due to health insurance. BF has been having some health issues and doesn't have insurance. My work pays for my health insurance and if we were married he would be covered and no longer going into massive debt. </div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Lunar, u iz so skurrrrrrrrry!!!
  • Hello and welcome!
    What is your favorite movie?  And do you have any furbabies?
    Wedding Countdown Ticker
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:378d064b-f9a0-4a96-8fbf-66515d33ba19">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Hello Hello : Click on the magnifying glass below the OP. ;) Hi OP!   Have you read the Hunger Games?   Are you okay if I drink wine while interrogating you?
    Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

    <div>Feel free, what kind of wine? Red? White? </div><div>
    </div><div>I haven't read the Hunger Games but have heard good things about it and it's on my list of books to read.</div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:078b0d0e-5af4-4bf4-baa9-82432542ef1d">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hello and welcome! What is your favorite movie?  And do you have any furbabies?
    Posted by KiloBravo7[/QUOTE]

    <div>I don't think i could pick a favorite. I love all things Tarintino, The Matrix, Star Wars. I really loveThe Count of Monte Cristo.</div><div>
    </div><div>When BF and i moved into together he brought his cat who has converted me into being a cat person.</div><div>
    </div><div>I'll attempt to pip.</div><div>
    </div><div><p style="font:normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica;margin:0px;">
    <a href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/14/6/8e1b1ca9-eee3-471e-86e8-af5db579a79f.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo" class="PhotoLink"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/14/6/8e1b1ca9-eee3-471e-86e8-af5db579a79f.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a></p></div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:b70abb0a-6d01-4e0b-9420-1cd855a79f19">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Hello Hello : I don't think i could pick a favorite. I love all things Tarintino, The Matrix, <strong>Star Wars</strong>. I really loveThe Count of Monte Cristo. When BF and i moved into together he brought his cat who has converted me into being a cat person. I'll attempt to pip.
    Posted by helloblueeyes[/QUOTE]

    That's my favorite!  Only the originals, though.  The newer three episodes weren't that great, IMO.
    Wedding Countdown Ticker
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:9c3650ce-c783-4a94-8580-7b9412ce367f">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Hello Hello : Don't get married for health insurance.  It's a nice plus, but I think it's totally the wrong way to decide it's time for the relationship to take the next step.  Do you live together and does your work cover domestic partners for health insurance?  My job does.  To cover me, it's $12/month.  If I wanted to cover me and FI, then it would cost me something like $100/month - which is much less than the plan would cost without getting it through an employer.  The benefits for FI would be taxed by the federal government (they would add the cost of the plan to my earned income, and tax me based on that amount, rather than my salary), but still.  It would be cheaper.
    Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>We do live together but cannot get covered unless actually married (I did look into it).</div><div>We haven't actually gone through with it yet because we haven't worked out all the emotions involved in the decision. It would cost us the least amount to do it that way, my employer covers all the health care costs for me, we would have to pay for his but the tax break of being married would make up for about half that amount. </div><div>
    </div><div>It's not an idea we are 100% sold on but it's something we were looking into. Neither of us take the decision lightly and want to be fully aware of every consequence (emotionally, financially, etc.. ) that comes along with it before actually going through with it.

    </div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • lunarsongbirdlunarsongbird member
    First Anniversary Combo Breaker First Comment
    edited January 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:d49d5f0b-4f89-49ad-b089-0a487fb716c8">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]Lunar, u iz so skurrrrrrrrry!!!
    Posted by CocoBellaF[/QUOTE]

    ROAR!
    <a href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/9/13/f9beac48-b765-405d-bd1a-bd405ad75ceb.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo" class="PhotoLink"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/9/13/f9beac48-b765-405d-bd1a-bd405ad75ceb.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a>

    Do you like raw fish, blue eyes?
    LilySlim Weight loss tickers
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:3cf8cde8-4560-487e-ab4c-3066f83a84e8">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Hello Hello : ROAR!   Do you like raw fish, blue eyes?
    Posted by lunarsongbird[/QUOTE]

    <div>
    </div><div>I like sushi, does that count? I have blue eyes, i like them but i would rather have green. I love green eyes.</div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • How long have you been with BF?
    Have you looked on www.ehealthinsurance.com? Check out the VitaShield2900 plan.
    LilySlim Weight loss tickers
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:7c336847-182e-4012-9592-c39e958110e0">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Hello Hello : Some Yellow Tail Reisling FI brought home for me last week. I'm on my second reading of the trilogy.  I started the third book today.  It's so amazing.  As you can tell by my ticker, I can't wait for the movie to come out.
    Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]
     <div>One of my favorite white wines is a Reisling. Chataeu Ste. Michelle Johannisberg Riesling. Yum!</div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • hi! Who are your favorite and least favorite posters on this board? If you've really been lurking, you have no excuse. You must answer. *evil giggle*
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:8317f8a1-b541-4867-bbf3-bab6e65593b3">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]How long have you been with BF? Have you looked on <a href="http://www.ehealthinsurance.com?" rel="nofollow">www.ehealthinsurance.com?</a> Check out the VitaShield2900 plan.
    Posted by lunarsongbird[/QUOTE]

    <div>All most a year. We did look into it and tried. However because he has been to the hospital twice in the last 6 months without an actual diagnosis of something they won't cover him. They can't figure out what the problem is, but suggest he get a bunch of specialized tests that ERs and Urgent Care can't do done to try to figure it out. </div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Hi there! I love your kitter! What's his/her name?  I'm a cat lady. Not one of the cat ladies like on Hoarders, my obsession is healthy, I promise. 

    I will also be drinking while interrogating :)

    Where's the last place you went on vacation?
    Where's your dream destination?
    Do you watch TV other than Doctor Who?



  • Why do you lovers your SO?
    LilySlim Weight loss tickers
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:322258c6-3d70-4b1f-b077-0a0a05a947f8">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]hi! Who are your favorite and least favorite posters on this board? If you've really been lurking, you have no excuse. You must answer. *evil giggle*
    Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

    <div>I haven't seen anyone i don't like (except for obvious trolls/crazy noobcakes)*, not that i have really figured out much of peoples personality in two weeks of on and off lurking. I will say that i really love hellotarra's siggy, but don't understand the engagement pony backstory.</div><div>
    </div><div>* I understand that i have not proven i am not a crazy noobcakes</div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Hello Hello Hello (see what I did there?).

    What's your favorite song to karaoke? Do you have any furbabies?  ABout Elle, don't worry about her, you don't have to tell her that I'm your favorite (wink wink).
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

    "You are made of win." -SopChick
    Still here and still fabulous!

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:b70abb0a-6d01-4e0b-9420-1cd855a79f19">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Hello Hello : I don't think i could pick a favorite. I love all things Tarintino, The Matrix, Star Wars. I really love<strong>The Count of Monte Cristo</strong>. When BF and i moved into together he brought his cat who has converted me into being a cat person. I'll attempt to pip.
    Posted by helloblueeyes[/QUOTE]

    <div>Which version? I love the one with Jim Caveziel, but it's so freaking long I always fall asleep watching it!</div>
    Wedding Countdown Ticker
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:15a0464e-d3a3-4765-b1d0-e3cbd7aa107e">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]Hi there! I love your kitter! What's his/her name?  I'm a cat lady. Not one of the cat ladies like on Hoarders, my obsession is healthy, I promise.  I will also be drinking while interrogating :) Where's the last place you went on vacation? Where's your dream destination? Do you watch TV other than Doctor Who?
    Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

    <div>I have been told that his actual name is McLovin, but my BF always calls him Vers. (i have no idea why he has 2 names, lol) </div><div>
    </div><div>Last place i went on vacation was over 2 years ago to Mississippi. I would love to visit France, or Italy, or Ireland, or England. There are probably hundeds more too.</div><div>
    </div><div>BF and i watch a lot of the science channel, we also like Bones, South Park, Family Guy and I watch NCIS (reg and LA) when he's not around.</div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:7f3f3a07-17a0-41aa-845f-1b1b3df99ad0">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]Why do you lovers your SO?
    Posted by lunarsongbird[/QUOTE]

    <div>
    </div><div>He is silly and nerdy and makes me laugh all the time. He and I have similar crazy families (that we try to stay out of) and understand each others family dynamics and experiences. We have alot of similar views and wants also. And he's dead sexy. </div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:1e254201-4c1f-4e9d-aec2-06386577e5f4">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Hello Hello : Which version? I love the one with Jim Caveziel, but it's so freaking long I always fall asleep watching it!
    Posted by swhite2012[/QUOTE]

    <div>That one is my favorite too. BF and I always watch it when we see it on tv, even if we just saw it.</div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:ffc5cc68-911e-48bb-8627-d5ec82f1e833">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Hello Hello : Since i'm not actually engaged or really doing any wedding planning, i didn't think it would be useful to have it open, there is nothing to share in it. Plus, internet safety and all that good stuff.
    Posted by helloblueeyes[/QUOTE]
    Oh, for sure. Mine's private too (not that there's anything to see) ;)  I was just being jerky for two reasons: #1 - I think Lunar is probably the least scary poster, so it's fun to call her that, and #2 - I've been off sick for two days and I'm terribly bored. Sorry 'bout that. You actually seem really rational and normal, welcome! :)
    Canada Cat Pictures, Images and Photos
  • helloblueeyeshelloblueeyes member
    First Comment
    edited January 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_hello-hello-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:9d473ffd-78b6-4af1-968e-125596a7bc96Post:1fd2493a-ca5a-4d52-9e3a-5d703c78b16b">Re: Hello Hello</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Hello Hello : Oh, for sure. Mine's private too (not that there's anything to see) ;)  I was just being jerky for two reasons: #1 - I think Lunar is probably the least scary poster, so it's fun to call her that, and #2 - I've been off sick for two days and I'm terribly bored. Sorry 'bout that. You actually seem really rational and normal, welcome! :)
    Posted by SopChick[/QUOTE]

    <div>No worries, you didn't come off as jerky. :)</div><div>
    </div><div>And i swear i am very rational, and almost normal.</div><div>
    </div><div>But now it's dinner time and i need to make spaghetti.  So i'll check back later.</div>
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards