I have been looking forward to a church wedding all my life. I dreamt that someday, I will march on the aisle. As I am entering the 30ish period, I have been contemplating of just going to the nearest judge and ask the judge to officiate our marriage. This is due to the fact that I led a busy work. And yet, at the back of my mind, I still wanted to get married in the church. Family tradition dictates that I should choose getting married in the church, but that option requires budget and great planning. What, wht now? I am confused....