Here is my dilemna! My fiance and I both have very large immediate family's with lots of kids and we're both very close to our families. Initially our idea was to compromise and out of my 3 nieces and 4 nephews and his 4 nieces only have 2 flower girls from his side and 2 ring bearers from my side. Perfect solution until we were talking to his brother who has 3 of the 4 nieces. We said we'd like "A" to be flower girl and that our other flower girl was his sister's daughter. They said yes, but that "B" will probably be upset and want to be one too, but "C" will be okay with it, she's older and has already been in a few weddings. So we agreed to have both A and B and so now have 3 flower girls. So NOW he emails us saying that C wants to be a flower girl too. So now, I feel like if we have ALL the girls on my fiance's side, that my side is greatly left out and am now toying with the idea of ALL 11 kiddos in the wedding. PLUS we have a bridal of 5 bridesmaids and groomsmen. This is supposed to be a small intimate outdoor ceremony. Any suggestions???