Ok i just got blasted on the international boards for mentioning that i was inviting some people to my wedding but not to the dinner.
In my circle of friends and family this is common practice - even a wedding photographer friend i have says it's something that happens at 90% of wedding as it's a way to be able to celebrate with people even if you are on a budget - or if you have a ton of friends but can't afford to feed 300 people.
Heck both when at first i wasn't going to do this i had freinds and family all suggested i do this
Is this a Canadian thing? A rual Ontario thing - cause seriously i don't want to offend anyone but I was almost put to tears reading how rude i apparenlty am