My "MOH" happens to be my brothers fiance. They got engaged two months after we did, and I already chose her as my MOH. Now Im having regrets. Trying to plan two weddings in the same family and having her as my MOH is too much. It seems they are always trying to "one up" my wedding. They have a much larger budget than we do and that really doesnt bother me. The thing that bothers me is when my wedding gets put down. To sum up a long story, she has helped me pick out bridesmaid dresses and said they were wonderful, however when (I am also one of her bridesmaids) and when we went to try on dresses for her wedding she refered to the dresses we picked out for my bridesmaids as hidious.
Little comments like this are happening all the time and are really starting to get at me, I dont even want to share anything about my wedding with her. I also think it is kind of rude I had her picked as my MOH and she said she wasnt sure who her MOH was which is fine. I found out she picked one of her other friends as her MOH when we were at the bridal shop by accident, not from her.
Would it be appropraite for me to ask her to step down or just refer to her as a bridesmaid?