My FSIL's husband just got out of prison (about 1 month ago), and I'd rather not invite him because:
a.) My family is very traditional/conservative & in particular, It will make my sister, who is also my MaOH EXTREMELY uncomfortable.
b.) I have never met this person, and I understand that you are supposed to invite anyone's partner who is in a committed relationship, but she just started seeing him again, and was seeing other people while he was locked up, so I would not call that committed, though they are still married. No one else will be at the wedding that both FI and I have not met.
c.) We ARE having kids at our wedding, including FI's kids, and neither of us feel comfortable having an ex con around them.
So maybe my sister and I are being judgy (quite possible), but it would make me uncomfortable as well.
So I'm wondering why it's ok to have a kid free wedding but not an ex con free wedding? Or maybe it is ok?
Thanks!