hey!
you mentioned that you met with rabbi alpern and decided to use someone else (less expensive!)
i see you are getting married upstate, too. im curious who you went with, and where she is from, if you dont mind my asking.
i couldnt tell if you guys were doing an interfaith or not, and maybe that allowed her to be an option for you, but not us. i thought i had checked out most folks in the region, but maybe i missed her!
thanks!