I am getting married in 45 days. My girls dresses come in in 10 days.
I had my shower about a month ago and one of my bridesmaid came and left the shower early and never told me she was leaving. I called her later and she said she just had to go.
I just had my bachelorette party last weekend and the same bridesmaids came and then left after being there for about 3 hours. She then came back the next day around 3:00 and hung out with everyone. That night, after a night of drinking she then decided to talk about me behind my back to my other bridesmaid, who then told me what she said. The stuff she said hurt me. She said she didnt consider us close friends, which I obviously do, because I asked her to be in my wedding. And she said she was worried about me getting married because she doesnt think the guy I am marrying is right for me. This guy was my best friend growing up and we dated for 5 years. I know that doesn't prove to anyone that he's right for me, however, there is no reason he isnt right for me.
I confronted my bridesmaid on all this and she just got very angry, never denied anything, she just started to badmouth all the other girls. What should I do? My gut is telling me to ask her to step down? But I don't have the courage to do it...
What would you do...advice?