I would totally 'lurk' for the answer to this but at the present moment I don't really have enough time (or patience haha). My husband and I have been married 2 years (will be 3 in May). We never had a ceremony, we just went to my grandpa's house and had him marry us in his office (he's an ordained minister).Our wedding was about 2 minutes long (if that). We both really want to have a wedding ceremony (i guess it would be more of a vow renewel) but we aren't sure how we would make it work. We want to do the ceremony in CA so that our families and close friends can go, but we are in GA. I have no idea how to go about even planning a wedding that will be over 2,000 miles away from where we live. And we have 1, soon to be 2 kids so we have a very limited budget. Any advice would be much appreciated.