Hello ladies,
Do the bride and groom make a small thank you speech to everyone who helped make the wedding happen at the reception? If so, what would you reccommend I do for my situation?
My aunt and uncle have been truly instrumental in everything for the wedding; they planned and hosted the shower, they've opened their house to us everytime we needed to travel (they live where our OOT wedding is), they've given us $ for the photobooth (because they really loved the idea and wanted that to be their gift), and they've been supportive and enthusiastic about the whole ordeal, and were instrumental during the planning and research phase of the wedding.
the Inlaws are traveling from the east coast and FI's family hosted the rehearsal dinner (very generous IMO). They've offered to help the week before with projects, pulling things together, and just the fact they're taking 3 days, spending time and $ to travel, and many have given gifts is just overwhelmingly kind and loving in my opinon. A lot of his family isn't well off, and the fact they made a point to save and plan to be with us really touches me.
My parents on the other hand... let's just say haven't been involved. Their reasoning; "We'll help you as much as what we were helped with." (read: not helping). True, my mom did pay for postage for the StDs and 1/2 of the invite postage, and will maybe have my veil done (she asked to do it, I didn't task her w/ it) by the wedding (she's been "working" on it since August and it's never moved from where she's left it). But they've been adamant that they aren't helping with the wedding. Oh well, it is what it is.
How can I thank those people truly instrumental in our wedding at the reception (if that's something the B&G do) without sounding b****y? Should I just include my parents in a generic thank you speech? I was really hoping to give mad props to my aunt and uncle and don't want to rein in how appreciative i am of their help for fear of making it sound like my family didn't help.
How do you toe this line of showing your deep appreciation for extended family and inlaws without making aloof parents feel unappreciated or embarassed?
Thanks!
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