His parents have refused to pitch in at all, and it took them 3 months to give us a guest list and said I'm stressing them out and not to talk to them until 4 months before the wedding. His mom hates all the things I've shown her I like from flower bouquets, to bridesmaid dresses, and inlcuding the wedding venue. IT's been nothing but negative.
On top of that he has a 4 year old from a previous relation ship and his parents keep saying she should be a mini bride, and that she should be more important and play a more important role than my own nieces. When I asked his mom why his daughter coudn't be accepted equally and not superior to my nieces she has nothing to say. I see my nieces just about every day since the day they were born 3 years ago. His daughter is with us every other weekend for two days, and I love her but I love my nieces too and I don't think his mom has the right to tell me my nieces aren't that important in the wedding.
His mom refuses to answer my phone calls and calls him back to ask what I want. But she has so many opinions on how Our day should be. And she has even said she'll be damn to come if she has a child at her table since we are doing assign seating for dinner. She won't even let her own grand daughter sit by her so we don't have kids at the head table, or even watch her for the night when we have a free hotel room where we booked out recption.