Okay, I finally sent out my STD cards...a little later than I should have. and they are confusing everyone. I am getting calls like crazy of people thinking their husbands lost the informational content of the letters thinking they were the actual invitation! You would be suprised at how many times that has happened! My mom insisted on us having them, my sister payed for them, and no one I sent one to even knows what in the heck save the dates are! How traditional are they really? This is rediculous. I could have lived without them, as everyone invited already knows when we are getting married. They are turning out to be more hassle than they were worth with all the confused phone calls...okay...I am done now.
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