FI and I are having a very small wedding with family only, think 40 people tops. My mom asked me if I was going to send Announcements after the fact to extended family and friends that aren't going to be invited. It honestly hadn't occurred to me, but now that I think about it, it seems a little gift-grabby. This is a second wedding for both of us, we're not going to register anywhere as we don't really 'need' anything gift-wise, and our day is about the union of our families. My mom, however, seems to think we need to make a formal announcement. I honestly have no idea what to do. Do people do this? Thoughts? My instinct is not to do this at all.
Thanks.
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