My FI has a daughter who is 16 and has been getting into trouble-running away,etc He sees her every other weekend.
I want to ask her to be my BM, but my FI and I are afraid her mother will not allow her to be in my wedding. In other words "guilt her" from being in my wedding since I am not her mother. Should I just go ahead and ask her and hope evrything goes alright given the issues she has going on as a teenager as well as her selfish and cruel mother??