My FI and I were engaged in December. My parents would like to throw an engagement party, but are not able to financially. I do not expect this at all and actually would prefer not to have one. I don't like being the center of attention and a wedding will be enough time in the spotlight!
However, my parents would really like one. My aunt has offered to host one for me at her home. I know my family wants a party, but I feel badly acccepting when my parents' financial situation is so rough. I almost feel bad about celebrating and even starting wedding preparations because of their situation. I feel bad celebrating when things are rough.
FI's family is throwing one and he thinks I should say thank you and accept my Aunt's offer. I feel weird about it.
Thoughts? Advice? Anyone in a similar situation? I am so torn about what to do.