My fiance proposed on August 13 this year. I told him that I didn't want a ring, so he proposed without one. We are both rather poor financially and in a lot of debt (I am a student; he recently started his own videography company). I ended up getting a lot more financial aid this year than expected, so I told him he could use some of it to get a ring if he really wanted to. The problem is that he got a ring that I don't like and spent way more money on it than we have. He asked me on several occassions what my perfect ring is, and I told him. He works in a jewelry store, so he notices the imperfections and things like that a diamond has in it. I don't care about those things. I don't want to be a brat, but I feel hurt and betrayed that he didn't take my feelings or ideas into consideration. I feel even worse since I'm paying for over half the ring and will have to pay this money back in loans in the future. I am happy to be with him and don't want anyone else, but I can't help feeling this way. It is a pretty ring, but it's just not something I would have picked out for myself, you know?