hi!, so i just got engaged last monday--yay! super romantic and perfect...now comes all the planning and questions....
so, my fiance and I are both in our senior years of college, I graduate this May, and he in December as with his engineering degree and AFROTC program it requires an extra semester. The problem right now is that we can't even begin to hope for a date because he does not find out until October where his first assignment will be or when. From patterns of other guys it can be anytime/anywhere after March 2011, and he could have a period of time between training and assignment (or something like that...)
The main question that leaves right now is whether or not he can say I am aiming to get married on this date, can I be assigned (and trained since there seems to usually be a month or more gap) around the wedding, or if he can just simply pre-matruly put in for leave for a time period now so we can choose a date so we don't get closed out waiting until October....
Any ideas? Suggestions? Advice or answers??