So...I just got engaged two weeks ago, on our two year anniversary actually.
I'm just not sure when we should get married. We want to buy a house next spring to move when our apartment lease is up, so we're saving like crazy for that, and his dad is going to help us with our downpayment.
I had thought we should have the wedding a year later, but everyone tells me I can't wait that long! Several of my coworkers are just SHOCKED I would put it off that long. And the they tell me to elope.
Is it selfish to do a destination wedding where only our parents and maybe siblings would be present and do a reception when we get home? Or do we need to share the actual ceremony with our family and friends? Especially confused about what to do because if we have a ceremony and reception in this area, we can't really afford to take a honeymoon for a while.
Kind of a long rant, sorry, but I really don't know where to go with planning now.