My mom had COPD. She did it to herself with years of smoking. This past January she was hospitalized with pnuemonia and finally quit.
She came home with oxygen (and an oxygen generator) and a breathing machine. She got rid of the oxygen in three months and the breathing machine is gathering dust.
I am afraid that trying to plan (and get ready) for a wedding will be too much for her. Right now it takes her forever to get ready just to go to church on Sunday.
My dad tried to talk to her again this morning and told her that she needed to get back on the oxygen. She didn't want to talk about it - as she was huffing and trying to catch her breath.
I am at a loss as to what to do. I guess I just need to vent!