So our banquet hall holds between 230 and 250. I had my list done for a while, and my mom's list was done for a while. I had to send out those invites first because the shower was being held earlier than normal due to crazy schedules. I talked with my FI over several weeks and his list held at 100 for an entire month (my mom's list combined with my list was approx 150). That worked out well for the numbers, knowing some people would not be able to make it. Weeks went by and I had ordered the invites, sent out the first 2 lists of invitations due to the shower situation (I didn't want to invite people to the shower before they knew they were invited to the wedding). Anyway, right before FI gives me the list he realizes he has forgotten several people, which ended up bumping up our list by 44 more people! There was no way to slim down the lists that had already gone out, and I was caught in a situation...we talked about it, and having no easy solution we sent out the invitations anyway. That's a total now of 306 people invited to a reception where the max is 250. Did anyone else find themselves in this situation? I just need to be talked off the ledge here. What was your rejection rate? What's done is done. The correction could be expensive, but we'll deal with it. I'm just wondering if brides out there have experienced the "normal" 30% rejection (can't make it) rate, or did anyone have 100% of people accept? What has been your experience? Just so you know, the 306 includes the priests, DJ, photographers, videographers, fiddle guy, and various other staff.