So we are starting to get our RSVPs in..which is quite exciting! However, we aren't having kids at our wedding, which has become a predicament for some. My poor cousin has a baby who is 8 months old. She is having some issues with her husband too....lots of tension there (but that's a story for another day). All of her family will be at our wedding, and his family is halfway across the country, which leaves no one to watch the baby. They have never left the baby with a babysitter either. Part of me wants to just let her bring the baby, but the other part of me knows thats not fair to those who have found other options for their children. I really want her to be there too...I'm at a loss as to what to do!