So I probably should just email my officiant about this, but I thought one of you might be able to help in the mean time.
I'm trying to come up with a plan for the ceremony and can't figure out where to put the questions (do you take this man....I Do), ring exchange, and vows. We're having a non-denominational ceremony if that changes anything. I know the ring exchange can be tacked on to either the questions or vows. For example, I've seen it like "as you place this ring on FI's finger, I ask you now: do you take this man.... I Do", or I've seen it as "please place the ring on FI's finger and repeat after me: from this day forward..." for the vows. Or I've also seen it as a completely separate thing where you just say "with this ring I pledge my love.....".
What are you all doing? What do you think works the best? TIA!