Just because you "close" or "delete" a post does not mean it will not still be there. Think VERY carefully before you decide to hit the post button.
You will get opinions, and those opinions may not be what you want to hear. If you only want folks that agree with you, you should reconsider hitting the post button.
Look at previous posts if you want to get a sense of what the common thoughts are around here...then you won't be hurt/surprised/angry.
I hope that all of you have a wonderful day getting married to your best friend! That's what it is all about!
My baby girl is a married woman...and now my baby girl HAS a baby girl. Time unfolds in such an amazing way. I've been blessed!