so since im getting married in about 53 days, i figured it would be a very wise choice to make an appointment for the cake. I emailed a bakery thats close byand then called today to answer the questions he asked via email. REALLY nice guy too. anywho, he said hes pretty booked around the time i would need the cake but since i only want a 2 tier cake and told him i want it pretty basic and simple, he is able to squeeze it in. That and i offered to pick it up since its not far from my home. Now i have an appointment tomorrow at 1 cuz it was the earliest he was available and the only day im off work this week. like i said he is REALLY nice.
Heres the problem, my FI is military and currently 6000 miles away in another country, my mom works nights and said "she would try" which usually means she cant or shes gonna make up an excuse, my MOH lives in another city 5 hours from here, AND i called my FMIL and she said the same thing as my mom but even if she can make it she is NEVER on time. no lie, when we took a tour of the church she was over an hour late. Everyone else is working or doesnt live in the same city. i dont know who else to ask and quite frankly im tired of planning this entire wedding by my self. Im not gonna cancel cuz its the only gonna cost me an estimated $228 and if i buy the wedding cake there i can get the grooms cake super cheap. and all i know is my FI doesnt like chocolate
any suggestions on what to do?