I really want to keep the cost of the wedding low and keep everything more intimate by keeping the head count down to 100 people or less. When it comes to the guest list, I have a lot fewer family members and close frineds that I want to invite than my fiance does, and I am having a hard time getting him to keep his number down. There are people he feels obligated to invite because he has known them his whole life, but I have only met them once or twice if at all, and he also has some friends that he wants to invite that I don't really care for and that i can see causing a scene. How do I go about telling him that there are certain people we really don't need to invite without making a big deal out of it? It is almost to the point where I want to tell him that we either keep it down to less than 100 or we elope and forget the whole wedding! HELP!!!