I have to say first and foremost I LOVE LOVE LOVE my FMIL. I am lucky to have such a sweet, and caring amazing FH and it is all due to this amazing woman.
I tell her about wedding plans and she likes a lot of my ideas and is quite impressed that we have it all "planned out." She is a very thrifty and frugal person. She gets this from raising 3 kids on her own for quite ahile. This is a wonderful thing. I get great ideas from her on how to save money on all kinds of things.
Now, I think I have done a decent job on finding creative ways to save $$. It seems like Im managing to do this 200 guest list wedding on around $10,000...ok a tad bit more
There are a few things than I am splurging on. It's about deciding what is really important right? My priotities are: Dress, Photographer, Dance Floor (I want a black and white checkered floor)
Im very lucky to know people I know who are helping. For instance, My wedding DJ $0...he and his wife are two of my best friends and his wife is in the wedding party. Stuff like that that makes it possible for me to have this beautiful wedding on this budget. FMIL about fainted when we told her what our budget was.
When I showed her my dress ($1100 Maggie Sottero) She said "Very very beautiful......now find something similiar for less!"
There is no drama yet. But I get the feeling she really wants us to try and save more money. She always tells us what she spent on her wedding, but Im not sure that she realizes that the cost of everything has gone up in 27 years. I dont wanna not tell her stuff when she asks. I guess Im trying to decide how to show her that we are doing the best we can so she stops stressing over it. I really dont want her stressing. I know she just wants us not to be strapped for $$ at the end of this
I know it's not a "problem" but it comes up a lot and we have a year to go.