I think I just need a to vent a bit, and maybe gain some perspective. Let me first say, my fiance and I are having a very small ceremony then a cocktail party reception on a Friday. The reason why we picked Friday is because it is our 5 year anniversary of dating. It just seemed right.
Anyway, we are paying for everything ourselves. My MIL is not happy with our wedding planning so far because it is not some HUGE fancy wedding. Since she is very traditional, she insists that we do a rehearsal dinner, because she read in some book that is what she is supposed to pay for. She will NOT let it go even though we are not even having a rehearsal. We decided since the wedding was on Friday, and we aren't even doing a rehearsal, that she could have her dinner on Saturday. But after some thought, it seems so silly to have a dinner on Sat AFTER the wedding. She wants it to be nice. And honestly, I am a bit afraid it will upscale our low key reception. I have suggested a brunch on Saturday morning after the wedding. It would be perfect because people can check out of their hotels then come have brunch before leaving town. She won't go for it.
This is just one issue with this whole silly dinner. She wants to send invitations for it. Which, I don't mind, but I would like them to go out in our wedding invitations, so people don't get confused. She is pretty much refusing to work with me about it. I told her I want all wedding correspondence to come in one envelope from one address. I even went as far as saying, she can buy them, fill them out, and stuff them, then mail them to me and I would just stuff them into our invitations. She simply refuses. She says she wants to send out HER invitations. I really don't know what to do with her! Help me ladies!