My fiancee and I have decided not to register for gifts. Before we lived together we had both lived on our own since college and have everything we need. If people felt obliged to get us something we wanted to suggest donations to a charity. I have a specific one in mind. So my question is how to get this out there? I know it's a faux pas to put registry information on the invitations, but does that go for this sort of situation? For example, would writing something like, your presence at our wedding is gift enough, blah blah blah charity information be appropriate? Or is this something that should be relayed to guests through other avenues, like you would with a traditional registry?
Thanks for any advice....