I'm pretty sure I have posted this before, but it's still an issue...
Our ceremony location can only hold 140. Reception can hold 400+. Both FI and my mom think it is alright to invite the must-haves to the ceremony, and everyone else we want to the reception. I keep repeating that THIS ISN'T OK. Over the holiday weekend, so many family inquired about the wedding, and parents (from both sides) assured that people should watch their mail for STDs.
I'm not sure what I should do. This simple answer is to just cut the invite list down to 140. But my family is helping us with paying for the wedding. Next thing is to not accept their money if I don't agree with what they say... but FI doesn't get my point either!! I can't just say, "Well honey, forget what you think!" Plus our families have verbally committed us to an additional 50 people from this weekend alone!
What is the best way to handle such a delicate situation?